What is 'Customer Empathy'? - The human element!

Have you noticed that over the last decade or so there's been
a quiet revolution going on in Customer Service? 
As a customer you can now feel it in many service interactions.

It used to be a rarity, but now it's increasingly common to actually be made to
 feel good as a customer by the caring, genuine sincerity of even busy call centre staff!

In 1992 I coined the term 'Customer Empathy' to describe it...

How far are you and your organisation on board with it? 

Whatever you call it, we all instinctively love 'Customer Empathy'. Even though it's difficult to describe, we know it and appreciate it when we get it; not least of all because it's still relatively unusual (but, thankfully, on the increase).

Customer Empathy creates that warm glow you get when you return to a business and they remember your name and are pleased you've come back, or when they obviously want to help you as a person, or are genuinely concerned about fixing some inconvenience they've caused and sincerely care that you've been put out.

Customer Empathy creates that wonderful sense of true (emotional) satisfaction we feel when we're being valued and treated as a person,
as a Human being!

Assuming you're running a business, when you and your people give us, your customers, some of your personality and put some of your heart into it (as well as your willingness to do the job required) it feels SO good to be recognised as a real person that we're likely to want to come back and do more business with you, and even to tell all our friends all about it!

This is because by bringing the human element into our interaction you've created an emotional bond between with us that will make us loyal to you and to WANT to come back to you, even if there's some better 'deal' elsewhere... even in a recession

When you're genuinely 'nice' to us (in an appropriate way), when you're friendly and treat us with respect:

• we feel like you actually care about us as a person (because you DO - you can't fake it!) 

When you talk to us like a human being, almost like a friend:

• we feel valued, important, welcome
• we feel like we matter to you
• and not to just the person serving us, but to the whole company... 

... and we can't help wanting to come back again!

Carphone Warehouse begins drive to be nice If you work for Carphone Warehouse, it is going to pay to be nice to your customers. Literally. The company's sales staff are to be paid according to how polite and helpful they are, in an attempt to boost sales in what is a declining handset market
The Times - Saturday 6th June 2009

Do you recognise what we're talking about here?

I'm sure you do, but what do we call this?

Well, there's really no generic phrase or term in common use to describe this obvious need to connect with customers at a human level in this way and to actually make them feel good as people. (The terms 'Customer Satisfaction' and even 'Customer Delight' don't quite cut the mustard.) 

So, way back in 1992, I coined the term 'Customer Empathy' as a generic term to describe this whole idea of what Customer Service is truly about: serving us with heart, with humanity and warmth, and with good old-fashioned values, like friendliness, caring and reassurance (you know - the kind the old village shop used to do so well, and sometimes still does).

Why 'Customer Empathy'? Well, not only does it seem to naturally evoke the general idea of what's been described above, but it's also true that it does require a certain level of empathy to actually achieve it (i.e. the ability and sensitivity to appreciate where your customers are individually coming from and so to naturally adapt to their own emotional as well as physical needs).

Whereas Customer Satisfaction drivers tend to make sure we DO the right thing for our Customers, Customer Empathy addresses the human side of our relationship; it speaks to the heart, not just the mind. So, when you 'smile' it's from the heart and because you want to, not just because you've been told to: because it's genuine, it hits its mark!

" [We now ask our customers:] Did we demonstrate interest in you as an individual?  In what way, specifically, did we demonstrate that?  Did it FEEL Like a good experience?"  " The word 'feel' used to be irrelevant, but what we now KNOW, absolutely, is that if you can just press those buttons it's that which actually shifts the consumer's advocacy of you as an organisation. " The Customer just simply EXPECTS that they will get the documents on time, that the phone will be answered in a minute, etc. What they don't necessarily expect, and what is differentiating us where we are getting this right, is where we are creating some emotional 'cookies' "
Darren Cornish, Director of Customer Experience at Norwich Union

Encouraging Customer Empathy

Interestingly, Customer Empathy does not lend itself to being 'trained', it's more like being released! Here are three ways of encouraging more Customer Empathy in your people:

1. By Example - people are inhibited and cautious if you're asking them to do something that you yourself aren't doing and believing in 
2. By Permission - rather than try to control them with rules, people will naturally know how to be friendly and 'empathetic' if you simply tell them that that's what you want and seriously make it clear you're giving them permission to serve their customers in the way that feels right to them (see the Free-Range Report for a great example)
3. By Recruiting - if you don't have enough people who 'naturally' know how to be friendly/ empathetic (when given permission), then you can always recruit for that, and it will help you attract the best candidates too. FirstDirect (UK's first Telephone Banking company and renown for its great Customer Service) always said that they recruit people with personality, since banking skills could always be taught.

So, Customer Empathy often becomes more about individuals being allowed to be themselves and to use their own abilities and personalities, rather than trying to force-fit them into being carbon-copies of some ideal corporate 'branded' personality with QA Approved behaviours.

Are you on board with the shift?

When I originated the concept of 'Customer Empathy' there were only a few pioneering business people (mainly Blue Chip business leaders) who recognised the common sense that I was pointing out and who didn't think I was nuts! 

But that early determination has gone on to play a leading role in shifting the entire UK Customer Service industry from being driven by what's being done to customers to how customers are being made to feel. 

And the results are palpable. Again, think of your own experience; is it like mine? In the 1990s almost all call centre calls were, frankly, appalling, often making you feel truly awful! (Those early Empathy Audits were typically deeply embarrassing for the Board!)

But now things have changed and so many seem to be getting on board fast with this shift towards a good Customer Experience, Emotional Intelligence, etc.

And yes, MANY call centre interactions are now actually anything from pretty good to outstanding. Even utility companies, like BT (an old client of mine!), can now come up with delightful staff that really show they understand and care about you (despite the organisation sometimes failing them and the customers dreadfully).

Example of Outstanding Service, from a call centre

Recently, I had cause to call a large business and I ended up in one of those dreaded Call Centres. Now, when my 'Customer Service Agent', Raj, finally said, "Thank you for calling," I simply couldn't let it rest there, particularly because Indian call centres tend to get bad press!

I simply had to thank HIM for his outstanding service to me; "Are you speaking to me from India?" I asked. "Oh yes, sir, from Delhi," he proudly announced.

"Well, I just have to both thank you and congratulate you on the fabulous service you've given me. I feel reassured, cared for and valued and I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate the personal, attentive care you've given me."

He was surprised and deeply touched that I had acknowledged him in this way. It was clear that he already knew he'd done a great job with me and was proud of it, but he wasn't used to people telling him so: "Thank you sir, it's very kind of you to let me know, I really appreciate it!"

It felt good to let him know; it wasn't so much a transaction, but more a genuine human exchange. It made a deep impression on me.

So, what was the call about? A huge purchase? A massive catastrophe?

NO! A simple run-of-the-mill enquiry about a telephone fault, nothing special!

Am I big client?

No! Just a regular private account holder (not BT in this case!) .

Did this call have an impact on me?

You betcha! I felt elated and impressed, and it made a lasting impression on me. I have thought about it often, and shared it with many people. 

This one call has had more impact and cemented my relationship and loyalty with this telephone supplier more profoundly than any amount of special deals, perfect telephony service, etc. could EVER achieve.

And how much does it cost?

And how much did it cost Raj to achieve that?

NOTHING!

The transaction took no longer than usual, in fact, it was probably QUICKER as a result of the excellent communication and reassurance experienced. His genuine, helpful and caring manner was simply to do a normal job in a better way, a way that included ME as a customer.

Still Early Days!

Now, although there's no doubt that Customer Empathy IS on the increase (and probably is in your own business too), there's still SO far to go in making customers feel good emotionally; it still represents an enormous (unparalleled?) competitive advantage opportunity to any and every business.

On the 1-10  Scale of objective Empathy measurement, even the very best companies are still only achieving around an Empathy Rating of 7.0, tops!

And even though this is a GREAT accomplishment, because it means that they are actually consistently making customers feel good, there's still PLENTY of headroom between 7 and 10 for further improvement!

This means that when Customer Empathy is properly embraced it's perhaps the most potent way to distinguish and differentiate yourself in times of recession (or at any time!)

Can I help?

As the original developer of the 'Customer Empathy Audit' and
'1-10 Empathy Rating', with 17 years' experience, I can help you take advantage of this opportunity for your business.

So, do just give me a call if you're interested in:

• a measure of how you're really making your customers feel today
  
• (or extending your existing Customer Empathy-type measures with new, very low cost Empathy Monitoring services, say)
  
• and so leap-frog your competition by having 
  Customers that love your company
  
• ....quickly, powerfully, reliably and at reasonable cost to you.

I look forward to hearing from you - it should be very interesting!